Your new favorite dating sidekick. Ask wiser questions to uncover red flgags, misalginment, time-wasters, and F-boy energy before you get too deep.
Tired of dating confusion, wasted time, and mismatched connections
What if you could spot the red flags early — without the awkward interrogation vibes?
The Real Deal Dating Guide helps you cut through the noise before, during, and after the first date.
Peel back the layers and spot hidden agendas early.
Decode his answers and what they actually reveal.
Avoid what not to ask (so you don’t waste your time).
Stay grounded in your own values (instead of getting swept up).
Hey there, I’m Imani. After experiencing, noticing, and helping women with frustrating dating experiences – and then creating love in a real, fulfilling, and honest relationship with my now husband – I’ve realized something seemingly small yet so impactful: asking better questions changes everything.
So, I created this question-driven guide to use before, during, and after the first date. My hope is that it helps you ease up on guessing, overthinking, or wasting time on people who aren’t right for you.
Questions? I Got You.
Is this just a list of questions?
Nope. You get explanations for why each question works, plus tips on how to vet the answers and what to watch out for.
Will this help me avoid dating the wrong people?
Yep — that’s the whole point! You’ll be able to spot red flags and emotional availability faster.
Is there a guarantee?
This is a digital product, so all sales are final. But if you actually use the guide, I truly believe you’ll see your dating life shift in the best way.